Unmute Your Voice: Transforming Fear into Faith Through the NOTED Method
- Anitra McKenny
- Dec 9, 2025
- 4 min read

For years, I hid my voice. I was so shy as a singer that many people didn’t even know I had musical gifts inside me. Fear held me captive. I was broken and afraid of what others thought. For decades, I shrunk to stay hidden—smaller on the outside than what God had placed on the inside. Then one day, everything changed. God flipped the script. He began healing my heart and unmuting my voice. If you’ve ever felt that same fear, that same silence, this is for you.
“I used to shrink to stay safe. Now I sing to serve. What God put in me will not stay hidden.”
The NOTED Method to Overcome Stage Fright
When nerves spike before practice, rehearsal, or stepping on stage, your body isn’t your enemy. It’s trying to protect you. The NOTED method helps you train your body, focus your mind, and free your voice. These five simple steps prepare you to sing with confidence and purpose.
N — Notice and Breathe
Start by calming your body with breathing. Try three physiological sighs: two short inhales followed by one long exhale. Then practice box breathing with a rhythm of 4 seconds inhale, 4 seconds hold, and 6 seconds exhale.
As you breathe, drop your shoulders, release your jaw, and let your ribs move naturally. Focusing on breath first helps steady your pitch and creates a clearer tone. This simple act grounds you and prepares your voice.
O — Own It by Writing It Down
Name your fear clearly. Say to yourself, “I’m afraid I’ll crack,” or “I’ll forget the words.” Write this fear on a card or in your phone’s notes app. Labeling your fear lowers its power over you. When you see it in black and white, it becomes something you can face instead of something that controls you.
T — Test It with Truth
Ask yourself, “What’s true?” Stack the facts against your fear. Remember your practice reps, your warm-ups, and the keys you know well. Add Scripture to strengthen your mind and heart. Verses like Isaiah 43:1 remind you that God calls you by name and holds you close. Philippians 4:6–8 encourages you to replace anxiety with prayer and peace.
E — Entrust It to God
You steward the gift of your voice, but God holds the outcome. Take a moment for a short prayer with open hands. Release your jaw and surrender your worries. Remember 1 Peter 5:7, which tells us to cast all our anxieties on God because He cares for us. This step shifts your focus from fear to faith.
D — Declare It Out Loud
Speak your identity, assignment, and skill cue before you sing.
Identity: “My voice is a gift, not a grade.”
Assignment: “I’m here to serve, not impress.”
Skill cue: “Breathe low, jaw loose, place forward.”
Declaring these truths reminds you why you sing and how to use your voice well.
Scripture for Your Identity, Assignment, and Skill Cue
Using Scripture to anchor your mindset can transform your experience on stage. Choose one verse from each category and turn it into a short line you say before singing.
Identity: Who I Am in Christ
• Isaiah 43:1 — “I have called you by name; you are mine.”
Declaration: I am called by name and I belong to God.
• John 1:12 — “He gave the right to become children of God.”
Declaration: I am God’s daughter, not a performer chasing approval.
• 2 Corinthians 5:17 — “If anyone is in Christ… new creation.”
Declaration: I am made new; shame and old labels don’t define my sound.
• 1 Peter 2:9 — “A chosen people… to declare His praises.”
Declaration: I am chosen to carry His praises with this voice.
• Romans 8:1 — “No condemnation for those in Christ Jesus.”
Declaration: I sing free from condemnation; I’m safe in Christ.
Assignment: Why I Sing
• Colossians 3:23–24 — “Work at it with all your heart… for the Lord.”
Declaration: I serve the Lord with excellence; this is worship, not a contest.
• 1 Peter 4:10–11 — “Use whatever gift… to serve others.”
Declaration: My voice is a gift to serve, so God is praised through it.
• Psalm 96:1–3 — “Sing to the Lord… declare His glory.”
Declaration: I’m here to make His glory known, not mine.
• Ephesians 2:10 — “His workmanship… created for good works.”
Declaration: This moment is one of the good works God prepared for me.
• Matthew 5:16 — “Let your light shine… glorify your Father.”
Declaration: I let His light shine so the Father gets the glory.
Skill Cue: How I Use My Voice
• Psalm 33:3 — “Play skillfully, and shout for joy.”
Cue: Skill with joy—breathe low, place forward, release jaw.
• 1 Corinthians 14:15 — “Sing with the spirit… and with understanding.”
Cue: Spirit + understanding—focus the lyric and support the tone.
• Psalm 19:14 — “May the words of my mouth… be pleasing.”
Cue: Clear diction, gentle onset; aim to please God, not to be perfect.
• 2 Timothy 1:7 — “Power, love, and self-control.”
Cue: Steady breath, loving presence, disciplined technique.
• Philippians 4:6–7 — “Peace of God will guard your hearts.”
Cue: Exhale longer than inhale; sing from guarded peace.
Moving Forward with Confidence
Fear noted, truth posted! Fear once kept me silent, but now I sing to serve. The NOTED method helped me transform my fear into faith. It can do the same for you. When you notice your body’s signals, own your fear, test it with truth, entrust it to God, and declare your purpose, your voice will grow stronger and freer. I coach vocalists and worship teams to calm the body, focus the mind, and sing with holy confidence. Book a 1:1 session or a team workshop today.
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Love y'all!
Anitra


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